#AtoZofLife - Apology

In the human history, it’s never been easy to apologize first. Especially when we think that it’s just a simple matter. When we start the move by apologizing first, it doesn’t mean that we lose. It’s never about losing or winning anyway. It’s about whether our relationship with that person worth or not. If it does matter more than our pride to say ‘sorry’, let’s just admit that we’re wrong. Say sorry and think of how to remedy the situation.

Saying sorry is one thing. Forgiving someone is another thing. What if we’re the victim and someone owe us an apology? What if someone has ripped our heart years ago that we cannot even leave it behind? Be it our best friends, be it our parents or our ex-lover. Let’s learn how to forgive. Perhaps, if we were on their position at that time, we would have done the same thing. We’re all humans. Humans make mistakes.
Let go of that grudge, you deserve peacefulness in your heart. You deserve to be happy with your presents and future. Most importantly, learn to give that apology to yourself and forgive your past mistakes.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” – Ephesians 4:32

Question to yourself:
1.      Is there any mistake you made that you couldn’t even forgive yourself?

2.      Is it hard for you to say an apology?

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