The hardest part of
moving on in a case of broken heart is not to forget that person, yet to trust
other person and to love again. I count myself lucky that I wasn’t betrayed by
the one I dated before. I couldn’t imagine how hard it would be to love again.
What I heard from my friends who were once being cheated, it is hard for them
to trust again. When someone’s trying to get close to them, they keep
questioning “What if that person will do the same thing to me?” It makes them
hard to love again. Because the one that can hurt us the most is actually the
one that we love.
Without trust we
cannot love freely. We will be worried with a lot of stuffs, such as what if we
love more than our partner do, what if this relationship will not work out but
our feeling has started to bloom even more, what if that person will cheat on
me. If you cannot trust, the love that you will find will be shadowed by your
past. In the end, we won’t be enjoying this relationship. The relationship
becomes burdensome because we overthink. And one of the biggest problem in a
relationship, which is jealousy is due to lack of trust.
Fall in love freely.
Trust not because you are sure this relationship will work out, but do trust
because even if it doesn’t work, it is worth it. Don’t be in a rush for a
relationship. If you want to start a new relationship, make sure you are ready
to trust again.
Question to self:
1. If
you are currently in a close relationship with someone, Can you trust that
person?
2. If you have cheated once in
your previous relationship, can you trust yourself not to do it again?
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